Every year, my relatives will never forget to ask me this question, "When are you getting married?"
Sincerely and honestly, I don't have the answer to that question. No specific answer at all. I can just simply answer - tomorrow, next month, next year or even later. But no, I won't be giving you ridiculous answers.
Why is everyone so concern about me not getting married? I would prefer if you ask me, "When are you going to finish your Master study?", "When are you going to bake another cheese cake?" or "When are we going to hang out?".
Don't tell me how to answer "When are you going to get married?" question, especially those of you who are happily married with 8 kids and another one on the way. Just don't, because you are going to annoy the hell out of me.
It's not that I don't want to get married. I would be a fool if I say I don't want to get married. I do want to get married with the love of my life, or someone who loves me as much as I do love him. It's just that the time has not come. Plus, I still have a lot of things to settle (bills, loans, etc) and learn (cooking, baking, etc). I feel that I am still not ready to go to the next phase.
Am I becoming a commitment phobia? Rest assured people. I am not. I am looking forward to spend the rest of my life with my soulmate, where ever he is. Just give me time and stop asking that annoying question, or I might as you back, "When are you going to die?". Deal?
Love,
